We have all felt that moment of sheer panic when we cannot find our keys or wallet. It’s disorienting and frustrating. Now, picture this happening multiple times every day, accompanied by an overwhelming sense of confusion and fear. This scenario is a common aspect of life for individuals with dementia. To make things even more unsettling, the senior with dementia may be hiding the objects themselves, often in places you are not likely to look.
It can be puzzling for caregivers when a person with dementia hides items. The question is, why would they do this? There are several key conditions that may be at play.
Loss of organizational skills: It might become challenging for someone with dementia to understand the purpose of everyday objects or recall where they belong. Hiding items can be a misdirected attempt at organization, one way to manage the daunting task of keeping track of their environment.
Need for engagement: Rummaging and hiding might be a form of engagement or activity for someone with dementia. As they lose the capacity to participate in more complex activities, these simpler actions can offer a feeling of purpose and occupation. These activities can fill their time and offer a feeling of accomplishment.
Loss of memory and confusion: Hiding items can be a symptom of the confusion and loss of memory that accompany dementia. As memory fades, a person with dementia may no longer recall where they placed their belongings, leading them to hide items in what seems like a secure spot. This action can give them a sense of security and help alleviate their anxiety about losing things.
Suspicion and paranoia: Dementia often creates a heightened feeling of paranoia and suspicion. The individual may become suspicious of people around them, fearing that others might steal their possessions. This sense of mistrust can prompt them to hide their belongings so that they can protect them.
When a person with dementia hides items, understanding the reasons for the behavior can help you approach the situation with empathy and patience. Try:
Labeling common hiding spots: Clearly label storage areas, drawers, and cupboards. This can act as a helpful reminder of where things belong and can decrease the likelihood of items being hidden in unusual places.
Maintaining a routine: A predictable daily routine can provide a sense of security and minimize anxiety. Regularly scheduled meals, rest times, and activities can help create an organized environment that feels safe and familiar.
Creating a safe and structured environment: Ensure that their living space is organized and free of hazards. Consistency in how furniture and personal items are arranged can minimize confusion and make it easier for them to find the things they need.
Providing engaging, meaningful activities: Keep their minds and hands busy with activities that are appropriate for their abilities and interests. Simple tasks like sorting, folding, or working with sensory objects can be both calming and fulfilling.
The Care Company is also here to partner with you to alleviate the underlying cause behind hiding items and other challenging effects of dementia. Get in touch with us online or call us at (416) 422-2273 to learn more about our highly creative and specialized in-home dementia care in Etobicoke, Toronto, Markham, and across the Greater Toronto Area.
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